So, I ask to the women who are still not sure about rape culture, patriarchy, or male supremacy, if you see the problem behind a culture in which “no” is punishable, but where failure to say “no” makes any violation of your personhood your own fault. When you sit back for a moment and think to yourself that surely you can say no to men, and that I am blowing things way out of proportion, then at least do this test within your own life: Start saying No more often when No is what you really want to say. Establish firm boundaries with men and do not let up. See if the male you are saying no to immediately stops and respects your boundary, or if his automatic response, reflexive—as though he’s been learning how to do this since he was a boy, as though he sees no other response more logical than this—is to attempt to do what you have just asked him not to do to you. Notice how you feel when telling a man “no” as well. Do you feel butterflies in your stomach? Do you feel guilty (denying him his right of access to you)? Do you feel mean? Do you feel unsure at all as to whether or not you have the right to tell him no? It is very easy to feel that men are not so bad when you are still making sure to give them what they want.

volanus:

Me and squad on the hunt for dick

volanus:

Me and squad on the hunt for dick

(via saulgoodman)


grad school made me cry so im watching this movie bc elle woods doesn’t quit!

grad school made me cry so im watching this movie bc elle woods doesn’t quit!


random-collage:

Collage #81 Elle Woods

random-collage:

Collage #81 Elle Woods


theonion:

The Onion’s Fantasy Football coverage offers guidance for your meaningless hobby. Read more.

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theonion:

The Onion’s Fantasy Football coverage offers guidance for your meaningless hobby. Read more.

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ughhhh one hour to finish two snooze-fest articles why didn’t I get a job like a normal person?!

jk I don’t wanna be an adult


on the plus side look at my bangs cooperating
can they withstand a bike ride!? that is the real question.

on the plus side look at my bangs cooperating

can they withstand a bike ride!? that is the real question.



update: the bug came back to life and i had a panic attack

happy monday


it’s 85 here because summer, satans fav season, never ends so i turned on the fan in the window and the largest grossest bug i have ever seen came out like GOOD MORNING TO YOU UNIVERSE I AM AWAKE


oculus (the movie): should’ve just gone to ikea


my whole body itches and i convinced myself that i’m going to break out in hives any second now but really all that’s flaring up is my hypochondria probably


brb building a shrine to braeburn apples


me

me

(via theevildana)


stephenhawqueen:

the US is unreal like girls cant wear shorts to school, you can literally lose your job for being gay, and unarmed black children are brutally murdered on the regular but old white ppl r still like “what a beautiful country. i can freely carry a gun for no reason and some of our mountains look like presidents. god bless”

(via feminisminapapercup)